Understand, Identify, Engage
It’s
a normal Monday morning. Workers are going about establishing their priorities
for the week. Everything seems to be settling into its usual routine, when a
passing comment by one employee to another rapidly disintegrates into a loud
and hostile debate on some seemingly banal matter of procedure. “What just
happened?” is the question most likely to be asked by those not too close to
the conflict. But it’s also likely that the situation has been brewing for some
time and there is much more beneath the surface than whatever is being
expressed in the current argument. It is common for a manager to rush into a
situation like this in with hopes of calming the situation and helping to solve
it, but being informed of the mechanics of workplace conflict is essential to
ensure that what the manager tries to do will address the real issues and not
just the problems displayed on the surface.
Table 1: Types of Conflicting Goals |
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Competitive
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Where the parties’
incompatibility is greater than their interdependence
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Cooperative
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Where the parties’
interdependence is greater than their incompatibility
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Enmity
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Where there is a competition
for socio-emotional superiority
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Task
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Where one party attempts
conflict for material gain
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Source:
Wang, Fink & Cai, 2012: 224
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Where do problems come from?
Disagreements
like this in workplaces are common: the very nature of discussing ideas and
coming up with solutions to problems involves differing opinions being
challenged and discussed. The question is whether—and how—the conflict can be
positive and healthy. This starts at the hiring stage by noting individuals’
communication styles and considering how different goals, interests and
backgrounds may affect interpersonal relationships (Marra, 2012). Goals and
priorities that are incompatible, being expressed by individuals who are
interdependent with each other, are the foundations of every disagreement and
conflict (see Table 1). Workplaces
may have specific and formal rules for conflict resolution, but even everyday
disagreements have unwritten rules depending on the workplace, such as how
direct or explicit someone should be when they disagree (Marra, 2012: 1580).
More generally, conflict in the workplace is characterised by the
“incompatibility of goals, incompatibility of actions, and perceived
interdependence between the parties” (Wang, Fink & Cai, 2012: 224). What
this means is that any conflict is a difference in priorities between two or
more people who are interdependent, with the conflict being governed by formal
and informal rules of engagement, as well as the different perceptions and personalities
of those involved.
Put
simply: unresolved conflict that is left unmanaged will get very messy, very
fast.
Table 2: Some Types of Conflict |
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Fundamental
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Differences in priorities,
approaches or ideas
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Emotional
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Inconsistency in
information
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Interpersonal
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Conflicting views and
goals between people
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Group
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Conflict between
different groups in an organisation
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Organisational
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Conflict spread across an
organisation
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Adapted
from source: Seraji, Otouss, Deldar & Khah, 2013: 246
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Disagreements: the grinding gears of interdependency
A
start is to consider what a conflict or disagreement is. A “disagreement” can
be defined as a form of negotiation; an expression of incompatible views
between two or more people who are interdependent upon each other to reach
those goals, and their inability or unwillingness to easily and completely
reach an agreement where those goals are in conflict (Marra, 2012; Seraji,
Otouss, Deldar & Khah, 2013). Many people think of disagreements as falling
into various pop-psychology types like ‘creative conflict’, but researchers
have found the differences to be more subtle and nuanced—and by extension, the
likelihood of a disagreement being healthy or damaging to relationships is not
as simple as asking whether the conflict is about task or personality.
Goals: The Engines of Conflict
Speaking
of goals, there are several types which can be task-oriented or
person-oriented; and of higher or lower priority than the relationship with the
other person or task. This mix of tasks and personalities can become quite
heady and complicated. A conflict on a matter of procedure may be where one
person (let’s call him Jack) has prioritised his project over the other person
(John’s) project. Jack considers the relationship between himself and John a
low priority; yet John is focussed on establishing his newfound authority and
cares little for Jack’s project. The banal argument over some matter of
procedure is coloured by Jack approaching the issue as a project-driven one,
while John is focussed on why he thinks Jack should acknowledge his authority.
This situation can end up with accusations of project sabotage by Jack, competing
against charges of insubordination by John. Untangling this mess is not as
simple as determining fault or deciding who is “in the right” if you want to
save both the relationships and projects involved. It takes understanding the
types of conflict and conflicting goals to resolve this sort of disagreement (see Table 2).
Table 3: Goal Desirability and Approaches to Conflict
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Concern
for own goal attainment
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Low
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High
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Concern for others’
goal attainment
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Low
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Avoidance
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Domination
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High
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Accommodation
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Integration
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The
level of concern for each party’s goal attainment is what results in different
types of approaches being adopted by each party: Domination, accommodation,
integration and avoidance are the four main levels of strategy (see Table 3). Depending upon the mix between the parties,
these approaches could resolve a conflict easily, or quite poorly. In addition
to these four strategies, if the desirability for both one’s own and others’
goals is medium for both parties rather than low or high, then compromise is
the likely outcome. This is why suggesting that all parties should aim for
compromise when there is conflict can be counterproductive: you may find that
you merely create a power struggle as both parties attempt to see whether the
others’ concern for their own goal is low or high, resulting in the conflict
breaking out into attempts by both parties to dominate the other, or avoid the
problems altogether, allowing them to fester (see Illustration 1).
Illustration 1: Conflict Strategies Continuum
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Source:
Marra, 2012: 1581
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The
danger of not addressing issues of conflict comprehensively is that it allows
the issue and relationships to be damaged in the long-term with actions by one
or several individuals such as withdrawal from the work or project, passive
domination, pretending to comply, outflanking such as backstabbing, or exiting
altogether by resigning (Wang, Fink & Cai, 229).
Common outcomes: Telling the conflicting parties to
“reach a compromise” or to “sort it out themselves” will not help fix the
problem and instead may exacerbate the problem. This may result in ongoing
undesirable behaviours or even a ‘cold war’ which could return to open
hostilities at a later stage over something totally unrelated.
Engaging: Preparing for Conflict Resolution
So
what can be done? For a start, conflict resolution can only be begun once the
conflict is understood:
Who is involved? What is involved? What are everyone’s priorities? Is it about task,
personality, or both? What is the level of interdependence
between the parties? How are the parties approaching
the conflict?
To
understand the nature of the conflict, consider each person involved:
- How direct are they being? Are they avoiding, changing the subject, or trying to negotiate?
- How explicit are they of their needs and goals and on what aspect of the conflict?
- Are they focussing on the individuals involved or on the tasks involved? What has priority?
- Are they focussing on their own or others’ needs?
- Is the language of the conflict using normal routine language or is it ad hoc? Is it attacking or defending?
- If the parties are from diverse backgrounds, is there a cultural, generational or other such aspect at play too?
It
is important to be comprehensive here. Remember: a risk in conflict management
is that failing to fully understand the mechanics of the conflict might result
in a resolution attempt that only provides a surface solution.
Troubleshooting: A Hypothetical Example
Consider
a hypothetical example (see Illustration 2):
our two high-performing workers Jack and John are in conflict. Jack is
primarily focussed on his project and, with little interest in the relationship
with John, is attempting to avoid the conflict. John misinterprets that
avoidance strategy as a sign that Jack considers his project low priority and
John attempts to gain socio-emotional control through a show of his newfound authority.
It should be clear that John is focussed on establishing a manager-employee
relationship while Jack is focussed on the project and cares little for John’s
desire to be acknowledged as a superior. The two are at a similar level and not
in the same department, so a compromise is unlikely in this situation. Failure
to address this mismatch of focus and the misunderstanding of authority lines
could result in actions like John attempting to dominate Jack, the two
attempting to outflank each other, and even one or both exiting the
organisation. You could address the surface issue of project-specific authority
and thereby allow the conflict to continue under the surface, with the conflict
constantly returning at inconvenient times. Even worse, their conflict could
spread through a workplace or even organisation-wide. The incompletely resolved
conflict could result in toxic work relationships that last as long as the
tenure of the two individuals involved.
Illustration 2: Conflict Hypothetical |
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Jack
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John
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Conflicting
Goals (table 1)
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Competitive
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Enmity
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Types
of conflict (table 2)
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Fundamental
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Interpersonal
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Approaches
(table 3)
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Domination
(task)
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Domination
(relationship)
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Adopted
Strategies (illustration 1)
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Avoidance
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Authority
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Resolve the Perceptions, not just the conflict
Conflict can be positive or negative, but whether it improves or damages relationships and task effectiveness depends on a range of factors including the mechanics of the conflict itself as well as the approach by line managers and human resources practitioners to address it. O’Neill, Allen and Hastings (2013: 240) note that “interdependence naturally leads to some level of conflict, but it is individuals’ reaction to that conflict, in the form of cooperation, competition or avoidance, that is important for team effectiveness”. Perhaps this is the best approach for human resources to take: expect conflicts, monitor them, and for those that do not resolve effectively, step in with an open mind prepared to comprehensively resolve them by focussing on the conflict as it’s perceived by each party rather than as a single problem. Remember: conflicts are in the minds of individuals, and each individual has a different perspective of what the conflict is.
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